I just finished watching the movie "Looks Beautiful" with a few questions raised by Teacher Hu Ping. I felt very heavy and made me think. I had watched this movie on CCTV 6 before, but I didn’t have so many thoughts at the time. , I just feel that the children under full care are very pitiful. Looking at so many children from the four teachers, it is impossible to take care of everything so well, but after reading it today, I have a deeper feeling:

Let me first talk about the level of love. I think the love given to the children by Teacher Li, the teacher of Fang Qianggun, is negative (destructive). The "growth" obtained under her "caring" is withdrawn and violent. Teacher Li shut the cursing fang spear in the small black room, and told the children that the fang spear was a gangster in the injection game, and let the spear and spear that hadn't learned how to wear clothes to perform in public and even pee their pants. I think these are all in The psychological and emotional destruction of children. In Fang Qianggun's mind, Teacher Li was so terrible and like a monster, taking everyone to catch the monster (Mr. Li), so that he was so angry that Mr. Li was furious. This is what the child really thinks, the monster is very scary, it will eat all the children. And when Fang Qiangqiang said that he didn’t want to go to kindergarten, the principal Kong said to him: "You have the happiest and most carefree time in kindergarten." Then he told the teachers that Fang Qianggun was confined and not allowed. Other children talk to him and isolate him. Who can see the joy and carefree childhood of his childhood from the eyes of Fang Qianggun? When he was released from confinement and returned to the children, he deliberately said, "Tell the teacher I'm out of the team". At this time, the child is a kind of What kind of mood? It shows how much Fang Gungun wants to be paid attention to. The end of the story made people look very chilling. I saw the child's loneliness, helplessness, and desire to be noticed.

I will not send my child to the full care. I think the parent-child relationship is very important in the early childhood. Parents are the first teachers of the children. We can't give the children to any institution to teach and raise them. We are responsible for the children. We all say that children are the crystallization of parental love. , Then should we give more love to children and let love continue. As Teacher Hu Ping said, if we do not have enough psychological, financial, and time preparations, we bring a life to this world, and entrust our child to an institution, what kind of world will he (she) encounter? It is worth thinking about!