龙应台曾言:“所谓从父母子女一场，不过你挥着手送出家门，追到巷口，他却用背影告诉你，不必追。”这就是父母子女之间的情感，因为爱，所以理所当然。
这不，材料中说，中学教师在讲朱自清《背影》时困感学生不仅不为所动，还疑问父亲所为是否违反规则，另一位语文教师布置学生写有关“感动”的作文，学生却认为父母的深夜照顾和殷切关怀是理所当然的。
好一个“理所当然”!
《诗经》中言:“父兮生我，母兮鞠我，抚我，畜我，长我，育我，顾我，复我。”毋庸讳言，一个人从呱呱坠地，父母之爱便源源不断:“理所当然”的抚育，“理所当然”的照顾，“理所当然”的关心。甚至到了捧在手里怕摔了，含在嘴里怕化了的地步。这一切显得那么的自然和顺理成章，不着一点矫情。以至于父母对子女的殷切关怀成了习惯，沐浴在父母之爱中的子女们，也渐渐醉心于这种“理所当然”的情亲之中，父母之爱也逐渐化为一种爱的基因，于子女而言，无需道出也无需言表，因为继承了父母爱的基因的孩子们，当他们逐渐懂事也逐渐理解父母之爱之后，他们赡养父母、孝敬老人、“老吾老以及人之老，幼吾幼以及人之幼”，也会视为“理所当然”。正所谓“投之以桃，报之以李”。
因而，我更认为面对父母老师的困惑，说一句让爱来得更“理所当然”。
毕竟，知恩图报为人的一大善性。古语云:“知恩图报者，善莫大焉。”从小时候起我们亦已懂得“滴水之恩，当涌泉相报。”老师父母大可不必担心，只要在平时的生活和学习之中，不仅仅是一味地教给孩子分数和成绩，也关注孩子的人品道德，人之为人的道理，随着年龄的成长，当他们也为人父母之后，自然懂得“理所当然”回报父母之恩。孟郊情不自禁地说过“谁言寸草心，报得三春晖。”李密“理所当然”地做过“常在床蓐，臣侍汤药，未曾废离。”朱自清满怀深情地回想过“在晶莹的泪光中，又看见那肥胖的，青布棉袍，黑布马褂的背影。”“羊有跪乳之恩，鸦有反哺之义。”动物们都尚且懂得“知恩图报”一理，作为儿女，哪能不去体悟父母之爱而忘却他们的付出与操劳。
“哀哀父母，生我劬劳。”父母给我们生命，“理所当然”地抚育我们成长，付出的心血和操劳无法计量，生而为人，我们最应该“理所当然”地感恩的就是我们的父母。泰国女孩卡妮塔成为选美冠军后，跪谢谢拾荒母亲养育之恩更现出了她的感恩之心;95后大学生背着母亲上大学;最美少年愿意捐出器官救治母亲......为人子女，在面对父母的无尽付出时，我们也把爱当理所当然。也许是一处豪宅，也许是一片砖瓦。也许是大洋彼岸的一只鸿雁，也许是近在咫尺的一个口信。也许是一顶纯黑的博士帽，也许是作业簿上的一个红五分。也许是一桌山珍海味，也许是一只野果一朵小花。
静水深流，大爱无言，诚哉斯言，我们大可不必为孩子们课堂上或者作文过程中的表现惊慌失措，当我们的教育工作者和家长们不忘感恩教育，我们的孩子们便不会不懂感恩。那种父母的无限度和无底线付出与宠溺;那种太功利化的教育，一味的追求高分数，勿视孩子的道德教导的家庭和学校教育才是最可怕的。
光阴无痕，聚散有时。让爱来得更理所当然吧!
英语翻译
Long Yingtai once said: "The so-called one from parents and children, but you waved your hand to send out the house and chased up to the alley, but he told you from the back that you don't have to chase." This is the emotion between parents and children, because of love, so Of course.
No, the material said that the middle school teacher felt that the students were not moved when they were talking about Zhu Ziqing’s "Back View", but they also questioned whether their father’s actions violated the rules. But I think the parents' late-night care and ardent care are taken for granted.
What a "take it for granted"!
"The Book of Songs" says: "The father gives birth to me, the mother gives birth to me, caress me, animal me, grows me, nurtures me, cares for me, and restores me." Needless to say, when a person falls to the ground, the love of parents will continue to flow. : "Take it for granted" upbringing, "take it for granted" care, "take it for granted" care. Even to the point where I held it in my hand for fear of falling, and held it in my mouth for fear of turning away. All this seems so natural and logical, without any hypocrisy. So much so that parents’ ardent care for their children has become a habit, and children bathed in their parents’ love gradually become enamored of this “natural” affection, and parental love has gradually turned into a gene of love. As far as children are concerned, there is no need to tell or express, because children who have inherited the gene of parental love, when they gradually become sensible and gradually understand their parents’ love, they support their parents, respect the elderly, "Old, young, young, and young" will also be taken as "a matter of course." As the saying goes, "vote for peaches and repay them for plums."
Therefore, I think that in the face of the confusion of my parents and teachers, it is "reasonable" to say that love comes more.
After all, knowing grace is a great goodness of human beings. As the old saying goes: “A person who knows the gratitude and repays it is great.” Since childhood, we have also learned that “the grace of dripping water will be reported to the spring.” Teachers and parents do not have to worry, as long as they are in daily life and study, not only It only teaches children the scores and grades blindly, but also pays attention to the children's character and morality, and the principles of being human. As they grow up, when they are also parents, they naturally know how to "take it for granted" to repay their parents. Meng Jiaoqing couldn’t help saying, “Whoever speaks in words will reward San Chunhui.” Li Mi “as a matter of course” did “always in bed, ministers serve decoctions, and never abolished it.” Zhu Ziqing recalled “at Jingying” affectionately. In the light of tears, I saw the back of the fat man, the blue cotton robe and the black cloth mantle." "Sheep have the grace of kneeling and breastfeeding, and the crow has the righteousness to feed back." Reason, as children, how can you not realize the love of your parents and forget their efforts and hard work.
"Sorrow for my parents and give birth to me." Parents give us life and nurture us "as a matter of course". The hard work and effort is immeasurable. We are born as human beings. It is our parents that we should "take it for granted" to be grateful. After Thai girl Kanita became the beauty pageant champion, she knelt to thank her mother for raising her waste and showed her gratitude; the post-95 college student carried her mother to college; the most beautiful teenager was willing to donate organs to save her mother... As children, we also take love for granted when facing the endless contributions of our parents. Maybe it'
