11月19日下午,我校邀请了感恩励志演说家李杰老师在广场举行了“让爱唤醒心中的巨人”感恩励志教育活动。短短的几个小时,却给我带来了深深的感触。最记忆犹新的还是那一句话——
“什么不可以等待?孝顺是不可以等待的。”是的,李杰老师的话,唤醒了我心中沉睡的巨人。
闭着眼睛,在黑暗里倾听着催人泪下的音乐,还有李杰老师那颤人心扉的话语。在黑暗里,我迷茫、我害怕。忽然间,眼前渐渐浮现许多画面,我看到了儿时那无忧无虑、蹦蹦跳跳、喜欢屁颠屁颠跟着母亲、总讨父亲欢心的自己。看着他们那久违而又陌生的笑容,我反倒觉得有点不知所措了。睁开眼睛,沉默了良久。上了中学后,记忆很清晰的告诉我——它找不到父母总是挂嘴边的温暖的笑,它找不到那颗没有被我伤到过的疲惫的充满期待的心。想到这,我心里不禁问了一句:这些年,你都在做些什么?你都做了些什么?有意义吗?说到这些,我想我自己可能也说不出来……
李杰老师那一字一句,一步一步的走进我的心里,把那沉睡的小巨人悄悄的唤醒。我还记得,我还记得那天为了一点小事就自暴自弃的自己;我还记得,我还记得那天与父母吵架后摔门而去的自己。我埋怨着他们不懂我,埋怨着他们不顾及我的感受。常言说的好“越长大越懂事。”自己这么做,顾及过父母的感受吗?自己真的长大了吗?总是我行我素,把自己的快乐建立在父母的痛苦之上,这对他们公平吗?总认为父母对我的爱是理所当然的,可自己知道他们那无怨无悔对自己的爱背后,有着多少艰辛、多少苦涩吗?愚昧的自己,总是用冷漠回报着他们那颗真诚的心。那颗心,一次又一次的被自己摔碎。最后,唯独他们一次又一次的含着泪把它拼凑……
很多时候,或许是年龄的缘故,我们都忽略了孝顺。总是认为父母对自己的好理所当然。可有没想过,自己对父母的孝顺,更是理所当然的呢?不要等到“欲树静而风不止,子欲养而亲不在”后才后悔莫及。
英语翻译:
On the afternoon of November 19th, our school invited the gratitude and inspirational speaker, Mr. Li Jie, to hold a gratitude and inspirational education activity in the square "Let love awaken the giant in the heart". In just a few hours, it brought me deep feelings. The most fresh one is the sentence--
"What can't you wait? Filial piety can't wait." Yes, Teacher Li Jie's words awakened the sleeping giant in my heart.
With eyes closed, listening to the tear-jerking music in the dark, as well as the trembling words of Teacher Li Jie. In the darkness, I am confused and afraid. Suddenly, many pictures gradually appeared in front of me. I saw myself as a child who was carefree, bounced around, liked to follow my mother, and always pleased my father. Looking at their long-lost but unfamiliar smiles, I felt a little overwhelmed. He opened his eyes and was silent for a long time. After going to middle school, the memory told me very clearly-it couldn't find the warm smile that my parents always used to say, and it couldn't find the tired and expectant heart that I hadn't hurt before. Thinking of this, I couldn’t help asking: What have you been doing these years? What have you done? Does it make sense? When it comes to this, I think I might not be able to say it myself...
The words of Teacher Li Jie walked into my heart step by step, quietly awakening the sleeping little giant. I still remember, I still remember the self who gave up on a little thing that day; I still remember, I still remember the self who slammed the door after quarreling with my parents that day. I complained that they didn't understand me, and complained that they didn't care about my feelings. As the saying goes, "The more you grow up, the more sensible you are." Did you do this by yourself, taking into account your parents' feelings? Did you really grow up? Always go your own way, and base your happiness on the pain of your parents. It's fair to them Do you always think that your parents’ love for me is taken for granted, but do you know how much hardship and bitterness are behind their unrepentant love for yourself? I am ignorant, always repaying their sincerity with indifference heart of. That heart was broken by myself again and again. In the end, only they put it together with tears again and again...
Many times, perhaps because of age, we neglect filial piety. Always take the kindness of parents to oneself for granted. Have you ever thought that your filial piety to your parents is even more of a matter of course? Don’t wait until "you want the tree to be quiet but the wind will not stop, and your son wants to support but your relatives are not" before regretting it.