一根筷子轻轻被折断，十根筷子牢牢抱成团”的道理谁都明白。只靠自己一个人的力量，难成气候，但如果有几个志同道合的朋友一起努力，成功就不是可望而不可及的人。正如萨迪所说:“蚊子一起冲锋，大象也会被征服。”

21世纪是个人才竞争激烈的时代，正如《进代论》中“适者生存，不适者淘汰”的道理一样。因此，要想有自己的立足之地，不仅要有扎实的基础知识，到位的课外延伸，以及把握机遇的能力，敏锐的观察力外，还要有一批朋友。因为只有拥有朋友，才能同他们共同学习，共同进步，才能让自己的层次不断提高。朋友之间不光能互相帮助，而且能发现对方缺点，使之能及时改正，这对于21世纪想尽量完美自己的人来说更是不可缺少的好条件。

只要朋友交得对，则有百利而无一弊。俗话说:“近朱者赤，近墨者黑。”如何来衡量朋友的“质量”呢?孔子曾说:“益者三友，损者三友。友直、友谅、友多闻、益矣。友便辟、友善柔、友便委，损矣。”可见，古人认为真正的友应是正真、诚实，或学识渊博的人，而与那些伪君子，谄媚逢迎的人或巧嘴利舌的人交朋友，是有害的。因此，在日常生活中，你就可以观察到，那些见到你的错误向你提出，并诚恳地希望你改正的人，做错事敢于承认的人，积极上进、学识广博的.人才是你交友的对象。在朋友间的不断交流中，你就会收到潜移默化的效果，同样变得诚实、正直，并拥有越来越多的知识，或是在学习生活中得到对方的意见或建议，不断完善自己。同时，在你有困难时，也会有朋友帮你承担。不要总以为那些说你好的人是你的朋友，虽然朋友之间的确需要称赞、鼓励，但如果对方只吹捧你，而对你的缺点熟视无睹，这种人我以为也不必和他交朋友，和这样的人交朋友只会助长你的虚荣心，搞不好就骄傲，不但不能前进，反而还要后退……

试想，如果你不仅有非凡的才能，周围还有许多好友，在你欢乐的时候，他们与你一同分享;在你悲伤的时候，他们与你一同承担;在你进步的时候，他们向你祝贺;在你做错的时候，他们向你提出意见和建议。就在这样的环境下，大家共同进步、共同成长。三个臭皮匠，就能顶一个诸葛亮，何况你的朋友也许不只三个，也许有三十个、三百个……

交友的益处如此之多，还等什么，留心观察你周围的人，看看你们能不能交朋友。

“千里难寻是朋友，朋友多了路好走……”

英语翻译、

One chopstick is gently broken, and ten chopsticks are firmly hugged into a ball. Everyone understands the truth. It is difficult to be a climate with only one person's strength, but if a few like-minded friends work together, success is not expected. People out of reach. As Sadie said: "Mosquitoes charge together, and elephants will be conquered. "

The 21st century is an era of fierce competition for individual talents, just like the principle of "survival of the fittest, and elimination of the unfit" in "The Theory of Advancement". Therefore, if you want to have your own foothold, you must not only have a solid basic knowledge, a good extracurricular extension, the ability to grasp opportunities, and keen observation, but also a group of friends. Because only by having friends, can we learn and make progress together with them, so that we can continuously improve ourselves. Friends can not only help each other, but also discover each other's shortcomings so that they can be corrected in time. This is an indispensable good condition for people who want to perfect themselves as much as possible in the 21st century.

As long as the friends are right, there are advantages and no disadvantages. As the saying goes: "Near Zhu is red, near ink is black." How to measure the "quality" of a friend? Confucius once said: "Three friends who gain, and three friends who lose. Friends are straight, friendly, forgiving, and good." Friendship, friendliness, friendliness, and friendliness will hurt.” It can be seen that the ancients believed that true friends should be true, honest, or knowledgeable people, and those who are hypocrites, flattering people or clever tongues Making friends is harmful. Therefore, in daily life, you can observe that those who have seen your mistakes are brought to you and sincerely hope you to correct them, those who have done something wrong and daring to admit it, are motivated and knowledgeable. The talent is you Who to make friends with. In the constant communication between friends, you will receive subtle effects, and you will also become honest, upright, and have more and more knowledge, or get the opinions or suggestions of each other in your study life, and constantly improve yourself. At the same time, when you have difficulties, there will be friends to help you take care of it. Don’t always think that those who say hello are your friends. Although friends do need praise and encouragement, if the other person only praises you and ignores your shortcomings, I don’t think you need to make friends with him. Making friends with such a person will only help your vanity, or you will be proud. Not only can you not move forward, but you will have to retreat...

Imagine if you not only have extraordinary talents, but there are many friends around you, when you are happy, they share with you; when you are sad, they bear with you; when you make progress, they congratulate you ; When you make a mistake, they give you opinions and suggestions. In this environment, everyone progresses and grows together. Three heads can match Zhuge Liang, besides, you may have more than three friends, maybe thirty, three hundred...

There are so many benefits of making friends, so what are you waiting for? Pay attention to the people around you and see if you can make friends.

"Friends are hard to find. If there are more friends, it is easy to walk..."